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29 Oct Boys Hear These Five Harmful Things Every Day

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Us Mama & Papa bears, we’d take on a pack of angry wolves, in flames with knives for claws, to protect our kids from harm. Wouldn’t we? But what if the harm to our boys was less obvious? Socially accepted? What if the harm was...

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08 Oct Toxic Masculinity – 5 Things You Didn’t Know

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Let’s start at the beginning. What the heck is Toxic Masculinity anyway?I was brave stupid enough to check the Urban Dictionary  for some informal definitions. Is it?:A term invented by man-hating fake feminists seeking to suppress men's biological traits.A healthy trait native to and suitable...

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Instagram post 17873127463506536 So the amazing '16 Days of Activism' is over, and what a huge campaign it's been! Did you get involved?⁠ .⁠ .⁠ But violence against women and girls is still a huge HUGE international problem. So thank you to the folks over at @unwomen for this post on masculinity & rape culture...⁠ ⁠ "Redefine masculinity. One of the ways you can take action to end rape culture is to take a critical look at what masculinity means to you and how you embody it. Self-reflection, community conversations, and artistic expression are just some of the tools available for men and boys (as well as women and girls) to examine and dismantle the culture of toxic masculinity with feminist principles. "⁠ .⁠ .⁠ 🎨: @hannabarczyk ⁠ .⁠ .⁠ Check out the link in bio to find out more ways to stand against rape culture. ⁠ .⁠ .⁠ ⁠ #orangetheworld #16days #GenerationEquality⁠ #16daysactivismagaintsgenderviolence⁠ #vawg #16daysofactivism⁠ #stopviolenceagainstwomen⁠ #breakthesilenceagainstdomesticviolence⁠ #unwomen #starttheconversation⁠ #internationaldayfortheeliminationofviolenceagainstwomen⁠ #standagainstrape #NotOneMore⁠ #rapeculture #rapecultureisreal #rapecultureiswhen⁠ #endrapeculture #endrapeculturenow #notaskingforit⁠ #consentisnecessary #nomeansno⁠ #endfgm #endsexualviolence #boyswillbeheldaccountablefortheiractions ⁠ #feministblogger #feministblog #feministfamily⁠ #orangetheworld2019
Instagram post 17857660402641173 Human Trafficking is e.v.e.r.y.w.h.e.r.e! (Swipe for stats) Purleeze… donate to my @dressember campaign!! (link in bio!) . . The media often focuses on a few select countries when it comes to human trafficking, but the reality is that trafficking has been reported on nearly every continent in the world. In fact, it could be happening right next door to us. . . I’m wearing a dress every day in December to fundraise, because I believe in fighting human trafficking locally and globally. Dressember’s partners work around the world to eliminate human trafficking through rescue, prevention, aftercare, and training. You can join the effort by donating to my Dressember campaign at https://www.dressember2019.org/fundraiser/feministfactclub . . Just do it!!!! . . . #dressember2019 #dailydressemberstats #dressember #girlssupportinggirls #itsbiggerthanadress #dressemberadvocate #youcandoanythinginadress #dressemberstyle #endmodernslavery #endhumantrafficking #slaverystillexists #stophumantrafficking #wearenotforslae #youcandoanythinginadress #untilallarefree #feministblog #feministblogger #feministblogs #vawg #stopviolenceagainstwomen #unwomen #starttheconversation #NotOneMore #notaskingforit #endsexualviolence #genderbasedviolence #feministblog #feministfamily
Instagram post 17845427572838950 I snort-laughed more than once! (Don’t judge, I bet you will too!) 😳😬 Absolute classic clap-backs from twitter! 🥊🥊 . Cheers to @viralfeminists @smartgirltribe @polikitty @period.dc & @world.feminists for finding them! 🙌🏻 . . #feministtweets #feministvibes #feministthoughts #feministfightclub #feministmovement #intersectionalfeminism #notallmen #allmencan #positivemasculinity #feministpodcaster #genderrolessuck #genderstereotyping #feministmom #feministmama #feministfamily #raisingfeminists #raisingstronggirls #raisingfeministboys #feministally #feministmen #malefeminist #futureoffeminism #feministmemes #feministhumor #strongwomen #strongwomenrule #strongwomen💪
Instagram post 17880134053477713 Welcome to Taking Up Space! A weekly series featuring fabulous feminists from around the world. (If you’d like to be featured, drop me a DM!!) . . I’m @feminist_fact_club and I’ll get the ball rolling... . . 1. Are you a feminist? Hells yes! . . 2. Do you hate men? (🤪) Course not. I hate the patriarchy. It hurts us all. . . 3. When did you start calling yourself a feminist? A long time ago - but not long enough. Why was I embarassed of the word feminist for so long? . . 4. What part of the patriarchy are you trying to smash right now? I’m totally here for the campaign by @unwomen against gender based violence #orangetheworld . Get involved! . . 5. What’s the best feminist advice you’ve learned recently? I got some great advice from @asalvaire over at @shift_balance who talked about how we are in charge of our own narratives. She made me think about what I’d like my narrative to be, and how to keep showing up with it. . . 6. Who is your feminism for? I speak from my own experience so I blog / post about unyielding support for feminists raising feminists. Because being a feminist is hard, and being a parent is harder. . . 7. What feminist book / music would you recommend? Right now I’m reading the classic ‘Feminism is for Everybody’ by bell hooks. Every word still rings true today. And of course I’m basically listening to Lizzo or Rosalia on repeat! . . 8. What’s the worst troll comment you’ve seen? I literally just changed my account name to include the word feminist, and the trolls have come crawling out in predictible droves! One just belly-flopped into my DMs with “Piss off” and then told me “Your dumb”. Sexist, ableist, toxic and grammatically incorrect. Ha! Thank you, Next! . . If you want to take up some space and be featured, slip slide into my DMs and let me know! . . #takingupspace #feminsitfactclub #feministfightclub #girlsinstem #fgirlsclub #feministblogger #feministblog #feministfamily #feministpodcaster #genderrolessuck #genderstereotyping #feministmom #feministmama #feministfamily #raisingfeminists #raisingstronggirls #raisingfeministboys #feministally #feministmen #malefeminist #raisingkindkids #toxicmasculinityruinsthepartyagain
Instagram post 17846350540799151 Thank you @traitspourtraits for this post! . . “How is this possible that so many people still can't afford to have proper menstrual hygiene ?? Periods aren't something you chose and you also have to suffer this most of your life. Yet, menstrual hygiene is still considered a luxury. This is not a luxury, this is a right!” . . #periods #menstrualhygiene #periodpoverty #periodpovertyuk #periodpovertyisreal #endperiodpoverty #periodpovertyawareness #feministblog #feministblogger #feministart #feministmovement #feministtattoo #feministartists #feminismmemes #feminismisforeverybody #feminismart #feminismointerseccional #feminismisequality #feministparenting #feministparent #feministfamily #periodhygiene #feministpodcast #feminismrules #feministpride #feministasfuck #feministfair
Instagram post 17895750433424589 16 days of Activism! From @unwomen... Break the silence. Fight the stigma. End impunity. Rape is not a weapon; it’s a crime. . . 🎨: @mariaponce.g . . #orangetheworld #16days #16daysactivismagaintsgenderviolence #vawg #16daysofactivism #stopviolenceagainstwomen #breakthesilenceagainstdomesticviolence #unwomen #starttheconversation #internationaldayfortheeliminationofviolenceagainstwomen #standagainstrape #NotOneMore #rapeculture #rapecultureisreal #rapecultureiswhen #endrapeculture #endrapeculturenow #notaskingforit #consentisnecessary #nomeansno #endfgm #endsexualviolence #genderbasedviolence #boyswillbeheldaccountableforthieiractions #feministblogger #feministblog #feministfamily #orangetheworld2019
Instagram post 17847698935770450 Fact: Human Trafficking impacts all kinds of people, but an overwhelming majority of individuals in human trafficking situations are women. Poverty, illiteracy, lack of education, gender discrimination and lack of job opportunities continue to leave women around the world vulnerable to violence and exploitation. ⁠ .⁠ .⁠ Through @dressember, I am standing up to raise funds for rescue operations, aftercare, prevention and more. ⁠ .⁠ .⁠ You can be a part of this effort to rid the world of slavery by giving to (https://www.dressember2019.org/fundraiser/feministfactclub.). ⁠ .⁠ .⁠ #dressember2019 #dailydressemberstats⁠ #dressember2019 #dailydressemberstats⁠ #girlssupportinggirls #itsbiggerthanadress⁠ #dressemberadvocate⁠ #dressemberstyle #endmodernslavery⁠ #endhumantrafficking #slaverystillexists⁠ #stophumantrafficking #wearenotforslae⁠ #youcandoanythinginadress ⁠ #untilallarefree #feministblog⁠ #feministblogger #feministblogs ⁠ #vawg #stopviolenceagainstwomen⁠ #unwomen #starttheconversation⁠ #NotOneMore #notaskingforit⁠ #endsexualviolence #genderbasedviolence⁠ #feministblog #feministfamily⁠ #orangetheworld2019⁠
Instagram post 17877694951484501 What, this old thing? Thanks for asking! It's a part of @dressember - Fighting against human trafficking in a dress (or tie).⁠ .⁠ .⁠ What is human trafficking, anyway? The definition of human trafficking states that it involves force, fraud, or coercion to obtain some type of labor or commercial sex act. ⁠ . ⁠ To put it plainly, human trafficking is the business of selling 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦 for profit. This winter, I’m fighting back against human trafficking by participating in #Dressember. ⁠ .⁠ .⁠ You can give to my campaign directly at https://www.dressember2019.org/fundraiser/feministfactclub. (click the link in my bio to go there directly!)⁠ ⁠ .⁠ .⁠ .⁠ #dressember2019 #dailydressemberstats⁠ #girlssupportinggirls #itsbiggerthanadress⁠ #dressemberadvocate⁠ #dressemberstyle #endmodernslavery⁠ #endhumantrafficking #slaverystillexists⁠ #stophumantrafficking #wearenotforslae⁠ #youcandoanythinginadress ⁠ #untilallarefree #feministblog⁠ #feministblogger #feministblogs ⁠ #vawg #stopviolenceagainstwomen⁠ #unwomen #starttheconversation⁠ #NotOneMore #notaskingforit⁠ #endsexualviolence #genderbasedviolence⁠ #feministblog #feministfamily⁠ #orangetheworld2019⁠
Instagram post 17906809477380764 10 instances when women give consent to sexual intimacy when they say no (official instances according to the official @unwomen) ⁠ 1.⁠ 2.⁠ 3.⁠ 4.⁠ 5.⁠ 6.⁠ 7.⁠ 8.⁠ 9.⁠ 10.⁠ .⁠ . ⁠ There are none.⁠ Like literally none.⁠ She means no, bruh!⁠ No means no.⁠ Only yes means yes.⁠ .⁠ .⁠ Check out the link in my bio for more official factz like theze from the United Nations @unwomen⁠ .⁠ .⁠ .⁠ ⁠ #orangetheworld #16days⁠ #16daysactivismagaintsgenderviolence #generationequality⁠ #vawg #16daysofactivism⁠ #stopviolenceagainstwomen⁠ #breakthesilenceagainstdomesticviolence⁠ #unwomen #starttheconversation⁠ #standagainstrape #NotOneMore⁠ #rapeculture #rapecultureisreal #rapecultureiswhen⁠ #endrapeculture #endrapeculturenow #notaskingforit⁠ #consentisnecessary #nomeansno⁠ #endfgm #endsexualviolence #genderbasedviolence⁠ #boyswillbeheldaccountableforthieiractions⁠ #feministblogger #feministblog #feministfamily⁠ #orangetheworld2019
Instagram post 17895487489415237 New Blog Alert!⁠ With 2020 just around the corner, I can’t help but think about the future, and how the present is shaping it. Trump. Brexit. The Handmaid’s Tale. Crocs, for goodness sake! Are we headed towards a horrifying dystopia or is the future really feminist? ⁠ .⁠ .⁠ In my new blog post, I turned to the Roxanne Gays, Jean Kilbournes, Blair Umanis and of course the @futurefeminists of world to see how a feminist future would be different from our world today.⁠ .⁠ .⁠ What are you still doing here - go check it out!!⁠ (link in bio, obvs!)⁠ .⁠ .⁠ ⁠ #feministvibes ⁠ #feministthoughts #feministfightclub⁠ #feministmovement #intersectionalfeminism⁠ #notallmen #allmencan #positivemasculinity⁠ #feministpodcaster⁠ #genderrolessuck #genderstereotyping ⁠ #feministmom #feministmama⁠ #feministfamily #raisingfeminists⁠ #raisingstronggirls #raisingfeministboys⁠ #feministally #feministmen #malefeminist⁠ #futureoffeminism⁠ #newblogpostalert #newblogpostup⁠ #newblogpostonline #newblogposts #newfeminism⁠ ⁠ ⁠ ⁠ ⁠ ⁠
Instagram post 18073184968166353 It’s finally here… Dressember!!! Get involved folks! . . @dressember is a a community of international advocates fighting to end human trafficking. (Women and girls make up about 71% of trafficking victims according to @unitednations ) . . We’ll be wearing a dress every day for the 31 days of December to bring awareness and fund programs that work to rescue and protect survivors and prevent human trafficking from happening in the first place. . . Wear a dress. Raise donations. Change the world. . . You can be a part of my fundraiser this December and help me reach my goal at https://www.dressember2019.org/fundraiser/feministfactclub. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 . . #dressember2019 #dailydressemberstats #girlssupportinggirls #itsbiggerthanadress #dressember #dressemberadvocate #dressemberstyle #endmodernslavery #endhumantrafficking #slaverystillexists #stophumantrafficking #wearenotforslae #youcandoanythinginadress #untilallarefree #feministblog #feministblogger #feministblogs #vawg #stopviolenceagainstwomen #unwomen #starttheconversation #NotOneMore #notaskingforit #endsexualviolence #genderbasedviolence #feministblog #feministfamily #orangetheworld2019
Instagram post 17861277490602909 “There is no excuse for sexual violence. There are no blurred lines when it comes to consent. The definition is clear.” @unwomen . . Day 5 of ‘16 Days of Activism Against Gender Based Violence’. Find out more over at @unwomen & stand with #generationequality against rape. . . #orangetheworld #16days #16daysactivismagaintsgenderviolence #vawg #16daysofactivism #stopviolenceagainstwomen #breakthesilenceagainstdomesticviolence #unwomen #starttheconversation #internationaldayfortheeliminationofviolenceagainstwomen #standagainstrape #NotOneMore #rapeculture #rapecultureisreal #rapecultureiswhen #endrapeculture #endrapeculturenow #notaskingforit #consentisnecessary #nomeansno #endfgm #endsexualviolence #genderbasedviolence #boyswillbeheldaccountableforthieiractions #feministblogger #feministblog #feministfamily #orangetheworld2019
Instagram post 17896958509411139 “You are so cool and intelligent and strong and fierce” (@secretsisterhood ) . . Yes you!!! . . And especially all the folks out here speaking up for the 16 days of activism for the @unwomen campaign against gender based violence! You are the coolest of all! . . Thanks @secretsisterhood for this gorgeous message! “Remind yourself of this everyday 💕” . . #selflovespo #loveyourself😍 #loveyourselftoday #genderstereotypessuck #genderstereotypes #youareenough❤ #youareenoughmovement #unrealisticbeautystandards #smashthepatriarchy #feministblogger #feministblog #feministmovement #feministmom #feministfamily #feministmum #feministmama #feministquotes #feministquote #feministparenting #feministpoetry #bekindtoyourselfandothers #selftalkmatters #selftalk #selfcarequotes #selfcarelover #begentlewithyourself
Instagram post 17869203769524549 What are some of the excuses used to justify gender based violence? . . These are some of my answers. I bet you have a few ideas too… . . Swipe for a blank template (created by @sayenoughcypher), which you can screen-shot and fill out yourself! Remember to tag @sayenoughcypher when you share your answers. . . Oh and who is that gorgeous art by?? @recipesforselflove, obvs! . . #16daysofactivism #16daysactivismagaintsgenderviolence #16days #vawg #orangetheworld #generationequality #stopviolenceagainstwomen #unwomen #starttheconversation #internationaldayfortheeliminationofviolenceagainstwomen #standagainstrape #NotOneMore #rapeculture #rapecultureisreal #rapecultureiswhen #endrapeculture #endrapeculturenow #notaskingforit #consentisnecessary #nomeansno #endfgm #endsexualviolence #genderbasedviolence #boyswillbeheldaccountableforthieiractions #feministblogger #feministblog #feministfamily #orangetheworld2019
Instagram post 17861817421599061 Today is the International Day for the Elmimination of Violence Against Women. It’s such a huge day, I needed to quote the amazing folks over at @unwomen ... again… . . “Although in recent years, the voices of activists and survivors through movements such as #MeToo, #timesup , #NotOneMore, have reached a crescendo that cannot be silenced or ignored, violence against women and girls continues in every country. . . One in three women are impacted by this violence; 15 million adolescent girls worldwide have experienced forced sex. . . For the 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence, from 25 November to 10 December, and under the umbrella of the Generation Equality campaign to mark the 25th anniversary of the Beijing Declaration and Platform for Action, UN Secretary-General’s UNiTE by 2030 to End Violence against Women campaign is calling upon people from all walks of life, across generations, to take our boldest stand yet against rape. . . #orangetheworld #generationequality #16days #stopviolence #stopviolenceagainstwomen #unwomen #starttheconversation #internationaldayfortheeliminationofviolenceagainstwomen #vawg #standagainstrape #rapeculture #rapecultureisreal #rapecultureiswhen #endrapeculture #endrapeculturenow #notaskingforit #consentisnecessary #nomeansno #endfgm #endsexualviolence #boyswillbeheldaccountableforthieiractions #feministblogger #feministblog #feministfamily
Instagram post 17906137414380118 Today is the international day for elimination of violence against women, and the folks over at UN Women have something to say about rape culture... . . “Too many of us fail to name or challenge the rape culture that surrounds us. Through words, actions and inactions; discriminatory laws or leniency towards perpetrators; through the media we consume, jokes we laugh at, and attitudes we do not question, we become part of a culture that allows rape to continue” . . “Under the theme of “Orange the World: Generation Equality Stands against Rape”, how will you learn, question and take action? Get involved by learning more about rape culture, listening to survivors and sharing their stories, joining and starting conversations about consent. One of the key challenges in prevention of rape and sexual harassment is the lack of understanding around the issue of consent—only yes means yes, given freely by consenting adults, in every situation.” . . “Small actions can make big impacts to stamp out rape culture.” . . “Use the colour orange and join the conversation on social media using #orangetheworld and #generationequality.” . . . #16days #stopviolence #stopviolenceagainstwomen #unwomen #starttheconversation #internationaldayfortheeliminationofviolenceagainstwomen #vawg #standagainstrape #rapeculture #rapecultureisreal #rapecultureiswhen #endrapeculture #endrapeculturenow #notaskingforit #consentisnecessary #nomeansno #endfgm #endsexualviolence #boyswillbeheldaccountableforthieiractions #feministblogger #feministblog #feministfamily
Instagram post 18079603036135579 Are you ready to get fact-ed? . . Right... Women do 60% of the world’s work. Produce 50% of the world’s food But only get 10% of the world’s income And only own 1% of the world’s property . . I recently had the fabulous pleasure of getting involved with the @shift_balance organisation. They’re on a mission to shift the balance of power, money, access, rights, safety… everything really, to a more equal society. . . Oh la la, go check out @shift_balance and sign up for their (free) 21 day ‘Boost Your Power’ challenge! . . Facts are from the Shift Balance book, which you can download free on their website! (So much free stuff, like, why would you not??!) . . #shiftbalance #feministfactclub #feministfacts #feministvideo #feministvibes #feministthoughts #feministfightclub #feministmovement #intersectionalfeminism #notallmen #allmencan #positivemasculinity #feministpodcaster #genderrolessuck #genderstereotyping #feministmom #feministmama #feministfamily #raisingfeminists #raisingstronggirls #raisingfeministboys #feministally #feministmen #malefeminist
Instagram post 17926788853341732 Like Fight Club… but with facts! Because knowledge is power. Grrrrr! . Welcome to our new name!! 🎉🤓💪🏻 . . Same awesome content (ahem, if I may say so myself) though. . . What’s your fave / weirdest / most impressive feminsit fact that you throw around at parties to impress people (and piss off MRAs)? . . I have a squillion! How about the fact that today there are 1.4 million open technology jobs in the U.S. and, at the current rate of students graduating with degrees in computer science, men outnumber women 4:1? Ladies, there’s a huge job market there, the opportunities are endless! Organisations like @girlswhocode educate girls in computer science to get them ready to become tech boss betches! . . . . #feminsitfactclub #girlswhocode #girlsinstem #feministmom #feministfightclub #feministblogger #feministblog #feministfamily #feministpodcaster #genderrolessuck #genderstereotyping #feministmom #feministmama #feministfamily #raisingfeminists #raisingstronggirls #raisingfeministboys #feministally #feministmen #malefeminist
Instagram post 18114008104057851 Swipe to see the full thread! . . “Just imagine what would happen if we told boys to be loving and happy and social, while girls were urged to be active, aware of their needs and wants, and noisy” (Kate Long) . . Can you even imagine?? . . #genderrolessuck #genderstereotyping #feministmom #raisingkindkids #feministmama #feministfamily #raisingfeminists #raisingstronggirls #feministblogger #raisingfeministboys
Instagram post 18013490776248638 Throw all that toxic rubbish in the bin and LIVE!!! For International Men’s Day 2019, go ahead... tag that man you know who’s a great lover... of equality! Let’s celebrate their contribution ❤️ . . #internationalmensday #internationalmensday2019 #mensday #malefeminist #malefeminists #notallmen #realmen #boyscrytoo #endgenderroles #malesuicide #menforfeminism #feminismbenifitseveryone #toxicmasculinity #toxicmasculinityruinsthepartyagain #feminismisforeverybody #feminismforall #feministblogger #feministmama #genderbias #hairyfeministpodcast
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